01-28-2025, 03:56 PM
Honestly, I think you’re overthinking it a bit. It’s very common for women to find oral sex more pleasurable than intercourse because of how direct and focused the stimulation is. Many women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, and during sex, the stimulation on the clitoris might not be as intense or consistent as when someone is using their mouth or fingers. It doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with her body; it’s just how she’s wired.
What matters is that she’s satisfied and that you two communicate well. You seem like a great partner, and that’s what really counts. If you want to explore more ways to bring her pleasure, try focusing more on foreplay. Giving her a lot of attention before penetration might help her enjoy the whole experience more. Also, don’t forget to check in with her during sex to see what feels good for her. Sometimes it’s the smallest changes—different positions or a bit of extra focus on certain areas—that make all the difference.
I wouldn’t be too worried about her not reaching orgasm during intercourse if she’s happy with the dynamic. Many women enjoy the connection they feel during sex even without climaxing, and that emotional bond is just as important, if not more so. I think it’s awesome that you want to explore ways to enhance her experience, but also remember that her satisfaction doesn’t always have to be measured by orgasm. If she feels good, you’re doing things right.
Finally, I wouldn’t stress too much about it. A lot of people assume that orgasm during intercourse should be the end goal, but every woman’s body is different. What matters is that you’re both enjoying yourselves, and you’re willing to try new things. Keep up the great communication, and don’t be afraid to experiment!
What matters is that she’s satisfied and that you two communicate well. You seem like a great partner, and that’s what really counts. If you want to explore more ways to bring her pleasure, try focusing more on foreplay. Giving her a lot of attention before penetration might help her enjoy the whole experience more. Also, don’t forget to check in with her during sex to see what feels good for her. Sometimes it’s the smallest changes—different positions or a bit of extra focus on certain areas—that make all the difference.
I wouldn’t be too worried about her not reaching orgasm during intercourse if she’s happy with the dynamic. Many women enjoy the connection they feel during sex even without climaxing, and that emotional bond is just as important, if not more so. I think it’s awesome that you want to explore ways to enhance her experience, but also remember that her satisfaction doesn’t always have to be measured by orgasm. If she feels good, you’re doing things right.
Finally, I wouldn’t stress too much about it. A lot of people assume that orgasm during intercourse should be the end goal, but every woman’s body is different. What matters is that you’re both enjoying yourselves, and you’re willing to try new things. Keep up the great communication, and don’t be afraid to experiment!