01-28-2025, 03:56 PM
It’s interesting you bring this up because I’ve been in a similar situation. My ex would only orgasm during oral, and it wasn’t for lack of trying other things. We talked about it a lot, and she was never frustrated about it, but I always felt like I wanted to give her the experience of climaxing through intercourse. We even tried adding clitoral stimulation during sex, but she still preferred oral in terms of intensity.
One thing that helped us was focusing more on her pleasure during oral sex, which made the experience even more enjoyable for both of us. It’s not always about getting her to climax from intercourse—sometimes it’s just about enjoying the moment, regardless of the outcome. You mentioned that your girlfriend loves the emotional connection, and I think that’s key. As long as she feels fulfilled emotionally and physically, I wouldn’t worry too much about “fixing” it.
However, if you want to continue to experiment and grow closer, you could explore the idea of combining different kinds of touch. Maybe adding some manual stimulation to intercourse could help her feel more pleasure in a way that’s unique to your relationship. It’s not about ego—it’s about exploring her body and finding new ways to enjoy each other.
I’d also advise reading more about sexual dynamics and women’s anatomy. Understanding how clitoral stimulation works in conjunction with intercourse could give you some ideas on how to integrate that into your sex life without feeling like one is “better” than the other. It’s all about finding balance and mutual satisfaction.
One thing that helped us was focusing more on her pleasure during oral sex, which made the experience even more enjoyable for both of us. It’s not always about getting her to climax from intercourse—sometimes it’s just about enjoying the moment, regardless of the outcome. You mentioned that your girlfriend loves the emotional connection, and I think that’s key. As long as she feels fulfilled emotionally and physically, I wouldn’t worry too much about “fixing” it.
However, if you want to continue to experiment and grow closer, you could explore the idea of combining different kinds of touch. Maybe adding some manual stimulation to intercourse could help her feel more pleasure in a way that’s unique to your relationship. It’s not about ego—it’s about exploring her body and finding new ways to enjoy each other.
I’d also advise reading more about sexual dynamics and women’s anatomy. Understanding how clitoral stimulation works in conjunction with intercourse could give you some ideas on how to integrate that into your sex life without feeling like one is “better” than the other. It’s all about finding balance and mutual satisfaction.