01-28-2025, 03:55 PM
Hey, I just wanted to say you’re not alone in feeling uncertain about whether you had an orgasm or not. Honestly, I’ve had experiences where I wasn’t sure if I was just really close or if I had actually crossed that threshold. It’s a tricky thing to figure out, especially when you’re still learning to connect with your body and let go of those mental barriers.
It sounds like what happened to you was a really good step forward. The way you describe the feeling of getting “overwhelmed” with pleasure is actually pretty typical when your body is about to reach climax. It might not have been the most intense orgasm you’ve ever had, but it could have been the beginning of learning how to experience that depth of pleasure. Sometimes the first few times are a little disorienting, and that’s okay.
The important thing here is that you allowed yourself to enjoy the experience without shutting it down. That’s what most people struggle with the most—learning how to stay present and not let anxiety take over. So, I’d say you’re definitely moving in the right direction. It’s all about exploring and not putting too much pressure on any one session.
Don’t be afraid to continue experimenting with different techniques or even talking to your boyfriend more openly about what you both want. The more you can work together and communicate, the more you’ll be able to build on these experiences and get closer to fully understanding what your body is capable of.
It sounds like what happened to you was a really good step forward. The way you describe the feeling of getting “overwhelmed” with pleasure is actually pretty typical when your body is about to reach climax. It might not have been the most intense orgasm you’ve ever had, but it could have been the beginning of learning how to experience that depth of pleasure. Sometimes the first few times are a little disorienting, and that’s okay.
The important thing here is that you allowed yourself to enjoy the experience without shutting it down. That’s what most people struggle with the most—learning how to stay present and not let anxiety take over. So, I’d say you’re definitely moving in the right direction. It’s all about exploring and not putting too much pressure on any one session.
Don’t be afraid to continue experimenting with different techniques or even talking to your boyfriend more openly about what you both want. The more you can work together and communicate, the more you’ll be able to build on these experiences and get closer to fully understanding what your body is capable of.