01-28-2025, 03:55 PM
Hey, I can really relate to your story. It’s frustrating when you’re trying to have an orgasm but just can’t seem to get over that mental block. For me, it took a long time before I could actually let go and let my body feel pleasure without overthinking it. The fact that you were able to just relax and not stop yourself during that session is a huge win.
That feeling of being "blurry" or out of it when the sensations become too much? Yeah, that’s a sign that your body is reaching a peak. It can be overwhelming, and it doesn’t always look the way we expect it to. Some people experience a sort of dissociation when they’re at the height of pleasure, which can feel almost like blacking out. So, it’s possible you did experience something close to an orgasm, even if you weren’t fully conscious of it at the time.
You’re definitely not alone in being confused about what’s going on with your body. Sometimes, orgasms can feel different than we expect, and that’s part of the journey of understanding yourself. What’s most important is that you’ve started to trust your body more and take away the fear that was holding you back. That alone is a huge step.
As you continue to explore, just try to keep up with that relaxed mindset. Don’t get too bogged down in trying to define the experience. Just keep focusing on what feels good, and your body will tell you when you’re getting closer to what you’re hoping for.
That feeling of being "blurry" or out of it when the sensations become too much? Yeah, that’s a sign that your body is reaching a peak. It can be overwhelming, and it doesn’t always look the way we expect it to. Some people experience a sort of dissociation when they’re at the height of pleasure, which can feel almost like blacking out. So, it’s possible you did experience something close to an orgasm, even if you weren’t fully conscious of it at the time.
You’re definitely not alone in being confused about what’s going on with your body. Sometimes, orgasms can feel different than we expect, and that’s part of the journey of understanding yourself. What’s most important is that you’ve started to trust your body more and take away the fear that was holding you back. That alone is a huge step.
As you continue to explore, just try to keep up with that relaxed mindset. Don’t get too bogged down in trying to define the experience. Just keep focusing on what feels good, and your body will tell you when you’re getting closer to what you’re hoping for.