01-28-2025, 03:55 PM
Hey there, thanks for sharing your experience. I totally understand the confusion you're feeling, as it can be tough to figure out what’s going on with your body, especially when it’s something new. Sometimes, it takes a few tries to really figure out what works. I’ve had my own moments where I wasn’t sure if what I felt was a true orgasm or just my body reacting to something new.
You mentioned feeling like you "blacked out" for a moment, and I’ve heard people describe something similar. It can be kind of like your mind goes blank because the sensations are so intense, and it takes a second for your brain to catch up with what’s happening. That’s pretty common when someone experiences pleasure to that degree. When everything feels that good, it can almost feel like time stops for a bit. It’s not necessarily a bad thing; it’s just your body processing something powerful.
Honestly, it sounds like you’re very close to fully experiencing an orgasm, especially since you were able to relax and let yourself enjoy the moment without holding back. The more you can let go of the fear and nerves, the more likely you’ll have those clear, intense moments of pleasure. Your body has the capacity for it, and it’s just a matter of building trust in yourself and your partner.
If I were you, I’d just keep experimenting with what feels good, without any pressure to “get it right.” It’s all about enjoying the sensations and being in the moment, not about getting an exact outcome every time. You’re definitely on the right track!
You mentioned feeling like you "blacked out" for a moment, and I’ve heard people describe something similar. It can be kind of like your mind goes blank because the sensations are so intense, and it takes a second for your brain to catch up with what’s happening. That’s pretty common when someone experiences pleasure to that degree. When everything feels that good, it can almost feel like time stops for a bit. It’s not necessarily a bad thing; it’s just your body processing something powerful.
Honestly, it sounds like you’re very close to fully experiencing an orgasm, especially since you were able to relax and let yourself enjoy the moment without holding back. The more you can let go of the fear and nerves, the more likely you’ll have those clear, intense moments of pleasure. Your body has the capacity for it, and it’s just a matter of building trust in yourself and your partner.
If I were you, I’d just keep experimenting with what feels good, without any pressure to “get it right.” It’s all about enjoying the sensations and being in the moment, not about getting an exact outcome every time. You’re definitely on the right track!