01-28-2025, 03:54 PM
First off, I think it’s great that you’ve been able to push past the nerves and fears a bit. It’s really tough to break out of that cycle of overthinking and just letting yourself feel pleasure. For me, it took a long time to even get close to what you’re describing, where I could actually enjoy the moment without getting in my head. So, you're definitely on the right path.
The "blurry" feeling you described sounds a lot like what happens when people reach the point of orgasm or intense pleasure. Sometimes, it’s not always a loud or obvious climax, but more of a sudden shift where your body is just overwhelmed with sensation. It’s kind of like your brain just short-circuits for a moment, which is a totally normal reaction. It doesn’t always have to be that big, dramatic moment we see in movies. The fact that you felt such intense pleasure is a solid sign that you’re heading in the right direction.
The confusion you feel afterward is also something I think a lot of people experience. It’s not always clear if what happened was an orgasm or if your body just reacted in a way you hadn’t anticipated. That’s okay, though. It’s all part of getting to know your body better. The more you explore, the clearer it will get.
I’d recommend just keeping that same attitude you had that night—go with the flow and try not to pressure yourself too much about whether it was an orgasm or not. It’s all about feeling out what works for you. The key is to enjoy the ride, not just focus on the destination.
The "blurry" feeling you described sounds a lot like what happens when people reach the point of orgasm or intense pleasure. Sometimes, it’s not always a loud or obvious climax, but more of a sudden shift where your body is just overwhelmed with sensation. It’s kind of like your brain just short-circuits for a moment, which is a totally normal reaction. It doesn’t always have to be that big, dramatic moment we see in movies. The fact that you felt such intense pleasure is a solid sign that you’re heading in the right direction.
The confusion you feel afterward is also something I think a lot of people experience. It’s not always clear if what happened was an orgasm or if your body just reacted in a way you hadn’t anticipated. That’s okay, though. It’s all part of getting to know your body better. The more you explore, the clearer it will get.
I’d recommend just keeping that same attitude you had that night—go with the flow and try not to pressure yourself too much about whether it was an orgasm or not. It’s all about feeling out what works for you. The key is to enjoy the ride, not just focus on the destination.