01-28-2025, 03:49 PM
I’ve been with women who have that exact reaction to nipple play, so you're definitely not alone. In fact, it’s kind of funny how some people really enjoy it while others don’t, but that’s just how human bodies work. It’s not that something’s wrong with you or that your husband isn’t doing it right—it’s just that nipple stimulation might not be your thing, and that’s perfectly okay.
What I’ve found helps when I'm with someone who feels the same way you do is focusing on what does feel good. Maybe your breasts are more sensitive to certain kinds of touch, or your partner could focus more on massaging and stroking in other areas. I’ve had some great experiences by shifting the attention away from the nipples to other sensitive parts of the body, and it created a more fulfilling connection overall.
Another thing to consider is timing. Sometimes, in the middle of a passionate moment, certain things might feel different than they would if you were taking things slower. Maybe experimenting with a slower build-up or less direct stimulation might help you find a middle ground that works for both of you.
It’s all about being honest with each other and working together to find what feels best. You’re doing the right thing by sharing this and asking for advice. Keep an open mind, and you'll likely find a way to enjoy intimate moments that’s perfect for both you and your husband.
What I’ve found helps when I'm with someone who feels the same way you do is focusing on what does feel good. Maybe your breasts are more sensitive to certain kinds of touch, or your partner could focus more on massaging and stroking in other areas. I’ve had some great experiences by shifting the attention away from the nipples to other sensitive parts of the body, and it created a more fulfilling connection overall.
Another thing to consider is timing. Sometimes, in the middle of a passionate moment, certain things might feel different than they would if you were taking things slower. Maybe experimenting with a slower build-up or less direct stimulation might help you find a middle ground that works for both of you.
It’s all about being honest with each other and working together to find what feels best. You’re doing the right thing by sharing this and asking for advice. Keep an open mind, and you'll likely find a way to enjoy intimate moments that’s perfect for both you and your husband.