01-28-2025, 03:46 PM
I've definitely had similar experiences where I couldn't orgasm during sex, but it's always been due to a mental block or pressure. When I’m not feeling 100% comfortable with a partner or the relationship isn’t emotionally fulfilling, it’s almost like my body just shuts down. But when there’s that deep connection and trust, like the one described, I can totally see how it could lead to a more relaxed, open experience. I think it's definitely about feeling safe and supported.
For me, it’s always been about letting go of the pressure to perform. When I’m with someone who’s understanding, not rushing things, and genuinely cares about me—not just my body—it helps me drop the guard. I think that’s when real pleasure happens, because you’re not worried about “getting it right,” but just enjoying the moment.
The fact that you can create that safe space for him is really amazing. It’s a huge confidence booster for him, I’d bet. I’ve definitely felt that kind of trust before, and it changes everything. It's more than physical; it's that emotional release that makes the whole experience different.
I think a big part of it is knowing that your partner isn’t judging you or worried about how things are going. It’s a space of non-judgment, which is so key to having a fulfilling sexual experience. I agree that trust really makes a massive difference.
For me, it’s always been about letting go of the pressure to perform. When I’m with someone who’s understanding, not rushing things, and genuinely cares about me—not just my body—it helps me drop the guard. I think that’s when real pleasure happens, because you’re not worried about “getting it right,” but just enjoying the moment.
The fact that you can create that safe space for him is really amazing. It’s a huge confidence booster for him, I’d bet. I’ve definitely felt that kind of trust before, and it changes everything. It's more than physical; it's that emotional release that makes the whole experience different.
I think a big part of it is knowing that your partner isn’t judging you or worried about how things are going. It’s a space of non-judgment, which is so key to having a fulfilling sexual experience. I agree that trust really makes a massive difference.