01-28-2025, 03:40 PM
Hey dude, welcome to the forum! This is an interesting topic and one that a lot of guys can probably relate to, especially if they’re newer to physical intimacy. From what you described, it’s hard to say for sure whether or not your fiancée orgasmed, but I’d lean toward “probably not.” That’s not to say she wasn’t incredibly turned on or enjoying the moment, though.
Here’s the thing about orgasms—they’re not always as straightforward for women as they are for men. The physical cues you mentioned (moaning, heavy breathing, grabbing onto you) are all great signs that she was aroused, but they don’t necessarily mean she climaxed. A lot of women can get to a point of intense pleasure without actually crossing that threshold.
That said, it’s awesome that you’re paying attention to her responses and wanting to learn more. It shows that you care about her experience, which is so important in any intimate relationship. My advice would be to not stress too much about whether or not she orgasmed. Instead, focus on the fact that she was clearly enjoying herself and felt comfortable enough to let go in the moment.
When the time comes, learning about what she likes and what gets her there will be a journey you two go on together. And trust me, once you’re able to communicate openly about this stuff, it’ll make everything better. For now, enjoy the journey and don’t overthink it.
Here’s the thing about orgasms—they’re not always as straightforward for women as they are for men. The physical cues you mentioned (moaning, heavy breathing, grabbing onto you) are all great signs that she was aroused, but they don’t necessarily mean she climaxed. A lot of women can get to a point of intense pleasure without actually crossing that threshold.
That said, it’s awesome that you’re paying attention to her responses and wanting to learn more. It shows that you care about her experience, which is so important in any intimate relationship. My advice would be to not stress too much about whether or not she orgasmed. Instead, focus on the fact that she was clearly enjoying herself and felt comfortable enough to let go in the moment.
When the time comes, learning about what she likes and what gets her there will be a journey you two go on together. And trust me, once you’re able to communicate openly about this stuff, it’ll make everything better. For now, enjoy the journey and don’t overthink it.