01-28-2025, 03:40 PM
Hey man, first of all, welcome to the forum. Glad to have you here! I’ve been in the game a little longer and can say that reading women’s reactions can be tricky, especially when you’re new to intimacy. What you described could absolutely be an orgasm—or it could just be a very heightened state of arousal. The fact that she was holding onto you tightly and breathing heavily is a great sign that she was deeply into it.
Here’s the thing, though—female orgasms aren’t always as clear-cut as what you see in movies or porn. Some women can climax from just intense kissing, others might need more physical stimulation. For many, it’s less about the physical sensation and more about emotional connection and relaxation in the moment. It sounds like she trusts you and is comfortable enough to let herself go, which is a huge part of reaching that level of pleasure.
What I would focus on is less about “Did she orgasm?” and more about, “Was she enjoying herself?” Because from what you’ve described, it seems like the answer to that is a definite yes. If she’s reacting like that during a make-out session, you’re clearly doing something right. Building that confidence early on is huge for when you two take things further after marriage.
And yeah, it’s normal to feel a little awkward bringing it up with her, especially given your decision to wait. But trust me, being able to talk about intimacy openly will make your sex life so much better down the line. If you approach it gently and focus on her feelings, it won’t feel so scary.
Here’s the thing, though—female orgasms aren’t always as clear-cut as what you see in movies or porn. Some women can climax from just intense kissing, others might need more physical stimulation. For many, it’s less about the physical sensation and more about emotional connection and relaxation in the moment. It sounds like she trusts you and is comfortable enough to let herself go, which is a huge part of reaching that level of pleasure.
What I would focus on is less about “Did she orgasm?” and more about, “Was she enjoying herself?” Because from what you’ve described, it seems like the answer to that is a definite yes. If she’s reacting like that during a make-out session, you’re clearly doing something right. Building that confidence early on is huge for when you two take things further after marriage.
And yeah, it’s normal to feel a little awkward bringing it up with her, especially given your decision to wait. But trust me, being able to talk about intimacy openly will make your sex life so much better down the line. If you approach it gently and focus on her feelings, it won’t feel so scary.