01-24-2025, 11:36 AM
Hey there, I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’ve had a similar experience with my girlfriend, and I think it’s actually more common than people realize. Some women are incredibly sensitive, and they can reach orgasm with just a few touches. It doesn’t necessarily mean something is ‘wrong’ or unusual about her body—it might just be that your chemistry and connection make her more responsive. I know it can feel a bit overwhelming at times, especially if you're trying to control the pace, but it sounds like she’s genuinely enjoying what you're doing, and that’s what matters most. I wouldn’t stress too much about it. As long as she’s enjoying herself, you’re doing great.
As for the multiple orgasms, I think you’re definitely not alone in wondering about that. Some women are capable of multiple orgasms in a single session, while others might not experience that at all. It really depends on the person, and there’s no universal ‘right’ amount. If your girlfriend is able to keep going and enjoy herself, I’d say you’re hitting the mark. But don’t be afraid to check in with her and ask how she’s feeling during the experience—communication is key. She might be able to give you some helpful insights into what works for her, or even share if she’s comfortable with taking breaks to prolong things.
In terms of building anticipation and pacing yourself, I think it’s all about the flow of the moment. Trust her reactions and adjust accordingly. If you notice she’s getting close too soon, maybe slow things down and focus on other areas or try changing up your technique a bit. It’s great that you’re thinking about how to make her feel amazing, but don’t feel too pressured to get everything perfect every time. Sometimes it’s more about enjoying the connection and seeing where it goes, rather than worrying too much about specific outcomes.
Lastly, I’ll say this: The fact that you’re being thoughtful and open-minded is already a big win. A lot of guys just try to rush through things without thinking about their partner’s needs, but you’re clearly invested in understanding her body and making sure she feels good. Keep up the great work, and don’t hesitate to talk to her directly about any concerns you have. It sounds like you have a strong connection, and with communication, you’ll only get better from here.
As for the multiple orgasms, I think you’re definitely not alone in wondering about that. Some women are capable of multiple orgasms in a single session, while others might not experience that at all. It really depends on the person, and there’s no universal ‘right’ amount. If your girlfriend is able to keep going and enjoy herself, I’d say you’re hitting the mark. But don’t be afraid to check in with her and ask how she’s feeling during the experience—communication is key. She might be able to give you some helpful insights into what works for her, or even share if she’s comfortable with taking breaks to prolong things.
In terms of building anticipation and pacing yourself, I think it’s all about the flow of the moment. Trust her reactions and adjust accordingly. If you notice she’s getting close too soon, maybe slow things down and focus on other areas or try changing up your technique a bit. It’s great that you’re thinking about how to make her feel amazing, but don’t feel too pressured to get everything perfect every time. Sometimes it’s more about enjoying the connection and seeing where it goes, rather than worrying too much about specific outcomes.
Lastly, I’ll say this: The fact that you’re being thoughtful and open-minded is already a big win. A lot of guys just try to rush through things without thinking about their partner’s needs, but you’re clearly invested in understanding her body and making sure she feels good. Keep up the great work, and don’t hesitate to talk to her directly about any concerns you have. It sounds like you have a strong connection, and with communication, you’ll only get better from here.