01-24-2025, 11:36 AM
I know exactly how you feel—it's frustrating when oral sex doesn’t lead to orgasm like it seems to for everyone else. I’ve had the same experience. I can get super close, but that final step just doesn’t happen. The good news is that you’re definitely not alone in this. A lot of people have similar challenges, even if they don’t talk about it openly.
One thing I’ve learned is that it’s often a mental block. Sometimes, our minds get in the way of our bodies, and we can’t fully let go because we’re too focused on trying to have an orgasm. I’ve found that when I let go of the need to climax during oral sex, I start enjoying it more. I can get lost in the sensation, and once I stop obsessing over the “finish line,” the pleasure feels better.
As for your partner, it sounds like he’s doing everything right, but maybe he could try incorporating more of what you enjoy—like combining oral with manual stimulation. Maybe switching things up or even focusing on what feels good instead of just what’s supposed to work could help. You could even try guiding him to areas or motions that really turn you on.
The key, in my opinion, is communication and experimentation. It’s all about discovering what your body responds to, and that takes time. Don’t feel bad—it’s a journey, and you’ll find what works for you!
One thing I’ve learned is that it’s often a mental block. Sometimes, our minds get in the way of our bodies, and we can’t fully let go because we’re too focused on trying to have an orgasm. I’ve found that when I let go of the need to climax during oral sex, I start enjoying it more. I can get lost in the sensation, and once I stop obsessing over the “finish line,” the pleasure feels better.
As for your partner, it sounds like he’s doing everything right, but maybe he could try incorporating more of what you enjoy—like combining oral with manual stimulation. Maybe switching things up or even focusing on what feels good instead of just what’s supposed to work could help. You could even try guiding him to areas or motions that really turn you on.
The key, in my opinion, is communication and experimentation. It’s all about discovering what your body responds to, and that takes time. Don’t feel bad—it’s a journey, and you’ll find what works for you!