01-24-2025, 11:28 AM
Hey dude, I hear you. It’s tough when you feel like you’re not able to connect with your partner sexually the way you want to. As someone who’s been with a partner who also didn’t respond to oral the way I expected, I can share a couple of things I learned. First, remember that the clitoral area isn’t the only place to focus on for orgasm. Some women experience orgasm through vaginal stimulation, deep kissing, or even through mental stimulation. So, instead of focusing too much on trying to hit the right spot, try exploring her body in different ways.
As far as making oral sex more enjoyable for her, it’s important to gauge how she feels during the act. If she keeps telling you to stop, it could be because she feels like it’s not doing anything for her, or maybe she’s not feeling as aroused as you think she is. It’s possible that her body just reacts differently to that type of touch, so I’d suggest trying different techniques or switching up the angle to see if it changes anything. Also, maybe incorporate kissing or caressing her while doing oral—sometimes creating a more intimate atmosphere can make a difference.
On the topic of clitoral sensation, it’s a great idea to gently explore the area using different techniques. Some women find that the “soft touch” method is more stimulating than direct, hard pressure. You could try circling your finger around the clitoris, using the edge of your palm or fingertips, or even gently tapping the area. Also, have you tried applying a little lube? It can enhance the sensations, especially if her clitoris feels a bit desensitized. Just keep it light and communicate with her to see what feels good.
Remember, man, it’s not all about hitting a magic spot. It’s more about the overall connection and the emotional aspect of sex. If she’s not feeling comfortable or doesn’t trust that you’re genuinely trying to please her, it’ll be hard to get anywhere. Take things slow, ask her what she likes, and keep your approach relaxed.
As far as making oral sex more enjoyable for her, it’s important to gauge how she feels during the act. If she keeps telling you to stop, it could be because she feels like it’s not doing anything for her, or maybe she’s not feeling as aroused as you think she is. It’s possible that her body just reacts differently to that type of touch, so I’d suggest trying different techniques or switching up the angle to see if it changes anything. Also, maybe incorporate kissing or caressing her while doing oral—sometimes creating a more intimate atmosphere can make a difference.
On the topic of clitoral sensation, it’s a great idea to gently explore the area using different techniques. Some women find that the “soft touch” method is more stimulating than direct, hard pressure. You could try circling your finger around the clitoris, using the edge of your palm or fingertips, or even gently tapping the area. Also, have you tried applying a little lube? It can enhance the sensations, especially if her clitoris feels a bit desensitized. Just keep it light and communicate with her to see what feels good.
Remember, man, it’s not all about hitting a magic spot. It’s more about the overall connection and the emotional aspect of sex. If she’s not feeling comfortable or doesn’t trust that you’re genuinely trying to please her, it’ll be hard to get anywhere. Take things slow, ask her what she likes, and keep your approach relaxed.