01-24-2025, 11:24 AM
Hey there! I’ll be honest, I don’t think it’s something that crosses my mind all the time during sex. For me, it’s more about the overall connection and how I feel with the person. When a guy orgasms, it can definitely feel intimate if the connection is strong. There's something kind of beautiful about it—like you’re both in sync at that moment, and it feels like a shared experience. But, yeah, there are times when it’s just part of the physical act, and I don’t necessarily place too much emphasis on it.
What I’ve found is that it really depends on the situation. If we’re both in a really relaxed, comfortable space, then it can feel like the culmination of everything we’ve been building up to during the night. But if the vibe isn’t great or there’s no real emotional connection, then it feels more like an ordinary part of the act. That being said, I don’t expect it to be a huge deal every time—it’s just one piece of the experience.
Emotionally, I guess it does matter in the sense that it can show a certain level of satisfaction, but it’s not the end-all, be-all for me. I’m much more focused on how we connect in general, not just in terms of the physical release. So, while I’d say it’s nice when a guy enjoys himself, I don’t see it as something that defines the whole experience.
And yeah, I agree with you—sometimes men might overestimate how much their orgasm impacts the woman they’re with. It’s not that we don’t care, but it’s not always the most crucial thing for us either. It’s definitely part of the equation, but not the whole picture.
What I’ve found is that it really depends on the situation. If we’re both in a really relaxed, comfortable space, then it can feel like the culmination of everything we’ve been building up to during the night. But if the vibe isn’t great or there’s no real emotional connection, then it feels more like an ordinary part of the act. That being said, I don’t expect it to be a huge deal every time—it’s just one piece of the experience.
Emotionally, I guess it does matter in the sense that it can show a certain level of satisfaction, but it’s not the end-all, be-all for me. I’m much more focused on how we connect in general, not just in terms of the physical release. So, while I’d say it’s nice when a guy enjoys himself, I don’t see it as something that defines the whole experience.
And yeah, I agree with you—sometimes men might overestimate how much their orgasm impacts the woman they’re with. It’s not that we don’t care, but it’s not always the most crucial thing for us either. It’s definitely part of the equation, but not the whole picture.