Where did my orgasms go???

[antonio123]

I’ve been in a similar situation, and I know how tough it is to feel disconnected from your body, especially when everything else seems perfect. For me, it was a mix of physical and emotional factors. I was stressed, and I didn’t even realize how much it was affecting me until I couldn’t reach orgasm anymore. I worked on relaxing my body—breathing exercises, some light stretching, and focusing on the moment rather than the end goal. It really helped me let go of that tension and focus on the pleasure.

I also think it’s important to look at the bigger picture. Hormones, mental health, stress—these all affect our bodies in ways we don’t always see. I started paying attention to my overall well-being and making changes in other areas of my life. I also experimented with new things in the bedroom, like different positions, toys, or even different settings. Sometimes a change in routine can help reignite things.

You might want to have that conversation with your boyfriend, though. It’s tough, but he’s probably noticed something is off, and talking about it openly will likely bring you closer. It’s less about blaming anyone and more about working through it together.

The most important thing I learned is not to put so much pressure on myself. Sometimes, it’s just about being patient and letting things fall into place naturally. It’ll work out in time.