01-24-2025, 11:22 AM
I think you’re already on the right track by being so open about your experience and wanting to explore solutions. Building confidence in your body and trust with your partner is a huge part of this journey. One thing that worked for me was approaching this as a team effort. My partner and I would openly talk about what we wanted to try and even laugh together when something didn’t work. That sense of humor made the whole process feel more relaxed and enjoyable.
As for techniques, deep squats during the “cowgirl” position gave me the control I needed to hit the right angles. Instead of sitting upright, try leaning forward slightly and grinding your hips in small circles. The pressure against the G-spot is more consistent, and you can experiment with speed and rhythm at your own pace. Don’t rush—sometimes it’s the slow build that leads to the most intense sensations.
Have you thought about exploring on your own? Masturbation can be a great way to figure out what works for your body without the added pressure of another person. Once you’re more familiar with the sensations you enjoy, you can guide your boyfriend with more confidence. There’s no shame in taking time to learn about yourself—it’s empowering and can make a big difference in your intimate life.
Above all, remember that every body is different. What works for one person might not work for you, and that’s okay. Celebrate the progress you’re making and try to see this as a journey of self-discovery rather than a problem to solve. The connection you share with your boyfriend will only grow stronger as you work through this together.
As for techniques, deep squats during the “cowgirl” position gave me the control I needed to hit the right angles. Instead of sitting upright, try leaning forward slightly and grinding your hips in small circles. The pressure against the G-spot is more consistent, and you can experiment with speed and rhythm at your own pace. Don’t rush—sometimes it’s the slow build that leads to the most intense sensations.
Have you thought about exploring on your own? Masturbation can be a great way to figure out what works for your body without the added pressure of another person. Once you’re more familiar with the sensations you enjoy, you can guide your boyfriend with more confidence. There’s no shame in taking time to learn about yourself—it’s empowering and can make a big difference in your intimate life.
Above all, remember that every body is different. What works for one person might not work for you, and that’s okay. Celebrate the progress you’re making and try to see this as a journey of self-discovery rather than a problem to solve. The connection you share with your boyfriend will only grow stronger as you work through this together.