01-24-2025, 11:16 AM
Wow, that’s an incredible experience, and I appreciate how detailed you were in describing it. First of all, you’re definitely not alone in this. G-spot orgasms can be extraordinarily intense for some women, especially when they’re not used to that kind of stimulation. It sounds like your partner was experiencing something called “altered states of consciousness,” which can happen during very intense sexual experiences. The sensations you described—quivering, tightness, and even the visual and auditory distortions—aren’t unusual in that context. Some women report it feeling like an out-of-body experience, and for some, it can be downright overwhelming.
From what I’ve read and experienced, the “urge to pee” feeling is a natural response to G-spot stimulation because the area is close to the urethra. It’s important to encourage her to let go of that fear because it’s rarely actually pee—it’s just a reflex. What you both experienced is a great example of why communication and trust are so important in exploring these things. It’s amazing that she trusted you enough to let you continue even though she was scared.
I wouldn’t worry about her dying from a G-spot orgasm. That said, I completely get why it felt like that in the moment! The body’s reactions to that kind of pleasure—rapid breathing, muscle contractions, racing heart—can mimic what you’d imagine in an extreme physical scenario. It might help if you both discuss boundaries and ways to make her feel safer the next time you try this. Maybe easing into it slower or having her guide your pace could help her feel more in control.
Ultimately, I think you both tapped into something very special here. It’s a level of connection and pleasure not everyone gets to experience, but it’s important to remember that it can be emotionally and physically intense. If she wants to go further with it, take things slow and keep checking in with her to make sure she’s okay. You’re clearly attentive to her needs, which is great. Keep that up!
From what I’ve read and experienced, the “urge to pee” feeling is a natural response to G-spot stimulation because the area is close to the urethra. It’s important to encourage her to let go of that fear because it’s rarely actually pee—it’s just a reflex. What you both experienced is a great example of why communication and trust are so important in exploring these things. It’s amazing that she trusted you enough to let you continue even though she was scared.
I wouldn’t worry about her dying from a G-spot orgasm. That said, I completely get why it felt like that in the moment! The body’s reactions to that kind of pleasure—rapid breathing, muscle contractions, racing heart—can mimic what you’d imagine in an extreme physical scenario. It might help if you both discuss boundaries and ways to make her feel safer the next time you try this. Maybe easing into it slower or having her guide your pace could help her feel more in control.
Ultimately, I think you both tapped into something very special here. It’s a level of connection and pleasure not everyone gets to experience, but it’s important to remember that it can be emotionally and physically intense. If she wants to go further with it, take things slow and keep checking in with her to make sure she’s okay. You’re clearly attentive to her needs, which is great. Keep that up!