01-22-2025, 12:41 AM
It took me years to realize that penetration alone doesn’t do the trick for me. For the longest time, I thought something was wrong because everyone talks about the “magic” of penetrative orgasms. But when I finally accepted that it’s just not my thing, I felt a lot more at ease. I’ve never been able to orgasm from penetration alone—clitoral stimulation has always been a necessity.
What’s really worked for me is focusing on how I can combine different types of stimulation. I’ve tried using vibrators, and once I found the right one, it was a game-changer. I always make sure to bring it into the mix during sex. Honestly, having that extra stimulation makes the experience feel much more complete.
Also, I’ve found that trying out different positions can make a world of difference. For me, positions where there’s a chance for a little more friction or where my partner can help out with additional touch work best. I love when my partner is fully engaged in the experience and helps me discover new ways to get there.
The key is really taking the pressure off. It’s not about “just” reaching orgasm—it’s about finding pleasure in the process. Exploring, being open, and finding what works for you is what matters. Don’t be afraid to speak up and guide your partner if you need something specific. We all experience pleasure differently, and that’s okay.
What’s really worked for me is focusing on how I can combine different types of stimulation. I’ve tried using vibrators, and once I found the right one, it was a game-changer. I always make sure to bring it into the mix during sex. Honestly, having that extra stimulation makes the experience feel much more complete.
Also, I’ve found that trying out different positions can make a world of difference. For me, positions where there’s a chance for a little more friction or where my partner can help out with additional touch work best. I love when my partner is fully engaged in the experience and helps me discover new ways to get there.
The key is really taking the pressure off. It’s not about “just” reaching orgasm—it’s about finding pleasure in the process. Exploring, being open, and finding what works for you is what matters. Don’t be afraid to speak up and guide your partner if you need something specific. We all experience pleasure differently, and that’s okay.