01-22-2025, 12:41 AM
I’ve had similar experiences, and it took me a while to accept that I’m not one of those women who can orgasm just from penetration. At first, I felt like I was broken or maybe something was wrong, but once I realized how many people go through this, it made me feel better. It’s just the way my body works, and I’ve learned to embrace it.
I’ve had to get creative with my partners to make sure I’m getting the stimulation I need. Some guys have been great about using their hands or a vibrator to help out. Honestly, I don’t even try to have an orgasm from penetration anymore—it's not really my focus. I enjoy the intimacy and connection, but when it comes to reaching that peak, clitoral stimulation is a must for me.
Over the years, I’ve also figured out that certain positions work better for me. For example, when I’m on top, I can control the rhythm and angle of penetration, and sometimes that helps with clitoral contact. I’ve also explored using a toy during sex, and that has made a huge difference. It’s about finding what works for me and not feeling pressured to meet some unrealistic expectation.
The important thing is to communicate openly with whoever you’re with. If you feel comfortable, tell them what you need, and don’t be afraid to experiment. There’s no right or wrong way to experience pleasure, so long as you’re enjoying yourself. For me, the goal is always about finding new ways to connect and feel pleasure, not just the orgasm.
I’ve had to get creative with my partners to make sure I’m getting the stimulation I need. Some guys have been great about using their hands or a vibrator to help out. Honestly, I don’t even try to have an orgasm from penetration anymore—it's not really my focus. I enjoy the intimacy and connection, but when it comes to reaching that peak, clitoral stimulation is a must for me.
Over the years, I’ve also figured out that certain positions work better for me. For example, when I’m on top, I can control the rhythm and angle of penetration, and sometimes that helps with clitoral contact. I’ve also explored using a toy during sex, and that has made a huge difference. It’s about finding what works for me and not feeling pressured to meet some unrealistic expectation.
The important thing is to communicate openly with whoever you’re with. If you feel comfortable, tell them what you need, and don’t be afraid to experiment. There’s no right or wrong way to experience pleasure, so long as you’re enjoying yourself. For me, the goal is always about finding new ways to connect and feel pleasure, not just the orgasm.