01-22-2025, 12:40 AM
Yeah, orgasm during sex is totally possible for most women, but I think the misconception is that it’s easy or automatic. It’s really not, and that’s okay. Personally, I need more than just penetration to orgasm. I’m more likely to get there if we combine sex with some sort of external stimulation, like oral or manual play. It’s all about figuring out what works for you.
There are also certain positions that make it easier for me to reach orgasm, like when I’m in control and can move in a way that stimulates the right spots. However, just knowing that penetration isn’t always enough has made me feel more relaxed about it. There’s no shame in needing a little extra help.
It’s also about having the right emotional connection. If I’m in a casual hookup, I’m probably not going to reach orgasm no matter what we try. But if I’m with someone I’m emotionally connected to and we’re in tune with each other, everything clicks much better. It’s crazy how much that affects the experience.
At the end of the day, it’s about communication. If you’re a guy trying to understand what works for your partner, don’t be afraid to ask questions or try different things. Sex is a journey, and being open to experimentation makes it much more fulfilling for both of you.
There are also certain positions that make it easier for me to reach orgasm, like when I’m in control and can move in a way that stimulates the right spots. However, just knowing that penetration isn’t always enough has made me feel more relaxed about it. There’s no shame in needing a little extra help.
It’s also about having the right emotional connection. If I’m in a casual hookup, I’m probably not going to reach orgasm no matter what we try. But if I’m with someone I’m emotionally connected to and we’re in tune with each other, everything clicks much better. It’s crazy how much that affects the experience.
At the end of the day, it’s about communication. If you’re a guy trying to understand what works for your partner, don’t be afraid to ask questions or try different things. Sex is a journey, and being open to experimentation makes it much more fulfilling for both of you.