01-22-2025, 12:34 AM
I’m really glad someone brought this up because it’s something I’ve noticed with a few of the women I’ve been with. A lot of guys assume that penetration is the main event, but for some women, it’s just not where the magic happens. One of my partners would climax so quickly just from grinding against me, even if we were both still fully clothed. It kind of blew my mind because it felt so different from what I thought sex "should" be.
The way I see it, external stimulation—especially around the clit—is all about precision. Penetration can feel amazing too, but it’s a broader sensation, while clitoral stimulation is more targeted. For women who are really sensitive, that focused touch can make all the difference. And like someone else said, the structure of the clit means it’s not just about the part you can see—it extends internally, so even indirect pressure can feel incredible.
I think it’s also worth mentioning that how aroused she is before you start makes a big difference. With one of my exes, she’d orgasm way faster from external stimulation if we spent a lot of time on foreplay first. The build-up seemed to heighten her sensitivity, so by the time I got to her clit, she was already close to the edge.
It sounds like your fiancée’s body is naturally wired for pleasure, which is awesome. My advice? Embrace it and keep exploring together. You might even discover new techniques or toys that amplify the experience for both of you.
The way I see it, external stimulation—especially around the clit—is all about precision. Penetration can feel amazing too, but it’s a broader sensation, while clitoral stimulation is more targeted. For women who are really sensitive, that focused touch can make all the difference. And like someone else said, the structure of the clit means it’s not just about the part you can see—it extends internally, so even indirect pressure can feel incredible.
I think it’s also worth mentioning that how aroused she is before you start makes a big difference. With one of my exes, she’d orgasm way faster from external stimulation if we spent a lot of time on foreplay first. The build-up seemed to heighten her sensitivity, so by the time I got to her clit, she was already close to the edge.
It sounds like your fiancée’s body is naturally wired for pleasure, which is awesome. My advice? Embrace it and keep exploring together. You might even discover new techniques or toys that amplify the experience for both of you.