01-22-2025, 12:34 AM
This is such a fascinating discussion. My girlfriend is exactly the same—external stimulation is her go-to for orgasms. I remember the first time we figured this out; I was trying to impress her with some advanced positions, but then she casually guided my hand to focus on her clit instead, and bam, she was done in a minute or two. It was a total game-changer for me!
What’s funny is that before her, I assumed most women preferred internal stimulation, like penetration. But the more I’ve been with her and had honest conversations, the more I realize that the clitoris is the MVP of pleasure for most women. I read somewhere that the internal parts of the clitoris extend into the pelvis, so even external stimulation can feel deep and intense when done right. It made me rethink how I approach intimacy altogether.
One thing I’ve noticed is that temperature and texture play a big role too. Sometimes, just using my hands isn’t enough, but when I use a silky fabric or even a vibrator, it takes things to another level. It’s like the variety in touch adds to the excitement and makes her orgasm even faster.
To the original post, I think your fiancée’s responsiveness is a gift. It sounds like she knows her body really well, which is half the battle. If you’re ever curious, try asking her what specific kinds of touch or movements drive her wild—it could make your sessions even more mind-blowing for both of you.
What’s funny is that before her, I assumed most women preferred internal stimulation, like penetration. But the more I’ve been with her and had honest conversations, the more I realize that the clitoris is the MVP of pleasure for most women. I read somewhere that the internal parts of the clitoris extend into the pelvis, so even external stimulation can feel deep and intense when done right. It made me rethink how I approach intimacy altogether.
One thing I’ve noticed is that temperature and texture play a big role too. Sometimes, just using my hands isn’t enough, but when I use a silky fabric or even a vibrator, it takes things to another level. It’s like the variety in touch adds to the excitement and makes her orgasm even faster.
To the original post, I think your fiancée’s responsiveness is a gift. It sounds like she knows her body really well, which is half the battle. If you’re ever curious, try asking her what specific kinds of touch or movements drive her wild—it could make your sessions even more mind-blowing for both of you.