01-22-2025, 12:34 AM
I can definitely relate to this because my ex-girlfriend also orgasmed much faster from external stimulation. She would tell me that clitoral stimulation felt way more intense and direct than anything internal. I think it has a lot to do with the number of nerve endings concentrated in that area, like the post mentioned—8,000 is no joke! When I focused on rubbing or even just lightly teasing her clit during foreplay, she would get there so quickly, and sometimes even multiple times.
From what I’ve learned, every woman is different in terms of what makes them feel good, but clitoral stimulation seems to be a universal favorite for many. I’ve also noticed that when the stimulation is indirect—like through grinding or rubbing against her—it can feel less overwhelming but still intense enough to bring her to orgasm. It’s like the perfect mix of pressure and friction.
One thing that worked for us was experimenting with different types of touch. Sometimes a gentle, circular motion with my fingers or just letting her grind against me worked wonders. Other times, a firmer touch through her underwear made her come even faster. Honestly, it’s all about paying attention to her body and how she responds.
I think you’re lucky to have a fiancée who’s so responsive to outside stimulation. Not every woman is like that, and it’s great that you’re open to exploring what works for her. Keep experimenting and enjoy the journey—it’s all about finding that sweet spot, literally and figuratively!
From what I’ve learned, every woman is different in terms of what makes them feel good, but clitoral stimulation seems to be a universal favorite for many. I’ve also noticed that when the stimulation is indirect—like through grinding or rubbing against her—it can feel less overwhelming but still intense enough to bring her to orgasm. It’s like the perfect mix of pressure and friction.
One thing that worked for us was experimenting with different types of touch. Sometimes a gentle, circular motion with my fingers or just letting her grind against me worked wonders. Other times, a firmer touch through her underwear made her come even faster. Honestly, it’s all about paying attention to her body and how she responds.
I think you’re lucky to have a fiancée who’s so responsive to outside stimulation. Not every woman is like that, and it’s great that you’re open to exploring what works for her. Keep experimenting and enjoy the journey—it’s all about finding that sweet spot, literally and figuratively!