01-22-2025, 12:33 AM
I totally understand why someone might feel this way. Masturbation is like having a blank canvas where you can paint any picture you want. You’re not limited by what’s possible or what someone else is comfortable with—you’re only bound by your imagination. That level of freedom is hard to replicate with a partner.
Sex, however, can be hit or miss. Sometimes it’s amazing, especially when there’s a deep connection or a sense of adventure. Other times, it can feel routine or even disappointing, especially if you’re not on the same wavelength as your partner. For me, the emotional connection plays a huge role in whether sex feels satisfying or not.
What I’ve found helpful is trying to approach sex with the same openness and creativity I bring to masturbation. Sharing fantasies, exploring new scenarios, or even just focusing more on being present in the moment can make a world of difference. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth the effort if you want to make sex more exciting.
At the end of the day, I think both masturbation and sex have their own unique benefits. There’s no rule saying you have to prefer one over the other—they’re just different ways of experiencing pleasure. The key is to find what works for you and embrace it without judgment.
Sex, however, can be hit or miss. Sometimes it’s amazing, especially when there’s a deep connection or a sense of adventure. Other times, it can feel routine or even disappointing, especially if you’re not on the same wavelength as your partner. For me, the emotional connection plays a huge role in whether sex feels satisfying or not.
What I’ve found helpful is trying to approach sex with the same openness and creativity I bring to masturbation. Sharing fantasies, exploring new scenarios, or even just focusing more on being present in the moment can make a world of difference. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth the effort if you want to make sex more exciting.
At the end of the day, I think both masturbation and sex have their own unique benefits. There’s no rule saying you have to prefer one over the other—they’re just different ways of experiencing pleasure. The key is to find what works for you and embrace it without judgment.