01-22-2025, 12:33 AM
I think a lot of people feel the same way but don’t talk about it openly. Masturbation gives you complete control over your experience, which is something sex can’t always offer. You set the pace, the mood, and the narrative, and there’s no room for awkwardness or miscommunication.
Sex, on the other hand, can sometimes feel like more work than pleasure. It requires coordination, compromise, and emotional energy. Even if the physical aspect is great, there’s still an added layer of complexity that can make it less appealing at times. For me, this is especially true if the connection with the other person is purely physical without much emotional depth.
That being said, I think it’s important to look at what makes masturbation so satisfying and try to integrate some of those elements into partnered experiences. For example, I’ve found that sharing fantasies with a partner can be a game-changer. It’s not always easy to open up, but when you do, it can lead to some incredibly intimate and exciting moments.
At the end of the day, I think it’s about finding what works for you. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to pleasure, and it’s okay for your preferences to shift depending on your mood or circumstances. The important thing is to be honest with yourself and, if you’re in a relationship, with your partner.
Sex, on the other hand, can sometimes feel like more work than pleasure. It requires coordination, compromise, and emotional energy. Even if the physical aspect is great, there’s still an added layer of complexity that can make it less appealing at times. For me, this is especially true if the connection with the other person is purely physical without much emotional depth.
That being said, I think it’s important to look at what makes masturbation so satisfying and try to integrate some of those elements into partnered experiences. For example, I’ve found that sharing fantasies with a partner can be a game-changer. It’s not always easy to open up, but when you do, it can lead to some incredibly intimate and exciting moments.
At the end of the day, I think it’s about finding what works for you. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to pleasure, and it’s okay for your preferences to shift depending on your mood or circumstances. The important thing is to be honest with yourself and, if you’re in a relationship, with your partner.