01-22-2025, 12:31 AM
I hear you, man. The pressure of trying to keep yourself from ejaculating too soon can really mess with your head. One of the first things I learned was that it's okay to experiment and try new things. You don’t have to stick to a set formula; sometimes, the best way to delay ejaculation is by finding what works best for you through trial and error. For instance, I noticed that if I kept the rhythm slow and steady, I could last longer.
I also recommend practicing "edging," which is when you bring yourself to the point of orgasm and then stop right before you ejaculate. This can help you become more familiar with your body's responses and teach you when to back off. When you practice this solo, you start recognizing the signs of when you're about to climax, and you get better at controlling those urges.
Another thing I found helpful is focusing on your partner's pleasure as much as your own. If you're too focused on your own orgasm, you're more likely to get overwhelmed. Instead, try paying more attention to your partner, exploring her body, and engaging in foreplay for longer periods. This shift in focus can take some of the pressure off and give you more control.
Finally, communicate openly with your partner about what you're going through. When you’re both in it together, it’s much less stressful. You can try out different techniques, and if she knows what you're working on, she can adjust accordingly. It becomes more of a joint effort, and that can make things more enjoyable in the long run.
I also recommend practicing "edging," which is when you bring yourself to the point of orgasm and then stop right before you ejaculate. This can help you become more familiar with your body's responses and teach you when to back off. When you practice this solo, you start recognizing the signs of when you're about to climax, and you get better at controlling those urges.
Another thing I found helpful is focusing on your partner's pleasure as much as your own. If you're too focused on your own orgasm, you're more likely to get overwhelmed. Instead, try paying more attention to your partner, exploring her body, and engaging in foreplay for longer periods. This shift in focus can take some of the pressure off and give you more control.
Finally, communicate openly with your partner about what you're going through. When you’re both in it together, it’s much less stressful. You can try out different techniques, and if she knows what you're working on, she can adjust accordingly. It becomes more of a joint effort, and that can make things more enjoyable in the long run.