01-22-2025, 12:30 AM
Hey buddy, I totally hear you. It’s tough when you feel like you're constantly fighting your body, especially when you're with someone who drives you wild. I used to struggle with this as well, but what helped me the most was training my body to respond differently. Like, I would masturbate in a more controlled way, experimenting with stopping just before climax. Doing this during solo sessions helped me get a better understanding of my body’s reactions.
It also helped me to take things slower during intimacy. When I feel myself getting too close to the edge, I focus on kissing, touching, or simply taking a short break before jumping into the action. That little pause lets me regain control and keeps things from getting too heated too quickly. Plus, it gives my partner a chance to get more involved, which makes the experience even better for both of us.
One technique that I use is the "squeeze" method. It sounds kind of weird, but when you feel like you're about to reach the point of no return, try lightly squeezing the base of your penis. This will decrease the urge to ejaculate and give you some extra time to get back in the game. It's another simple technique to try out when you're having sex, and it works like a charm when you get the hang of it.
Finally, I agree with the guys here: talk to your partner about it. It might feel awkward, but a little understanding goes a long way. She’s probably noticing you pulling back or getting frustrated, so explaining that you're working on it can help her support you in the moment. It makes the whole experience more relaxed and enjoyable for both of you.
It also helped me to take things slower during intimacy. When I feel myself getting too close to the edge, I focus on kissing, touching, or simply taking a short break before jumping into the action. That little pause lets me regain control and keeps things from getting too heated too quickly. Plus, it gives my partner a chance to get more involved, which makes the experience even better for both of us.
One technique that I use is the "squeeze" method. It sounds kind of weird, but when you feel like you're about to reach the point of no return, try lightly squeezing the base of your penis. This will decrease the urge to ejaculate and give you some extra time to get back in the game. It's another simple technique to try out when you're having sex, and it works like a charm when you get the hang of it.
Finally, I agree with the guys here: talk to your partner about it. It might feel awkward, but a little understanding goes a long way. She’s probably noticing you pulling back or getting frustrated, so explaining that you're working on it can help her support you in the moment. It makes the whole experience more relaxed and enjoyable for both of you.