01-22-2025, 12:18 AM
I think a lot of us have been in situations where we feel like we’re not hitting the right notes with our partners, but the key is to approach it with patience and understanding. Have you asked her what feels good in a non-intimate setting? Sometimes the pressure of the moment can make it hard for someone to express what they like. Casual conversations can open doors you didn’t even know were there.
For women with reduced clitoral sensation, it can help to shift the focus to the entire body. Erogenous zones aren’t just limited to the obvious areas. Her back, shoulders, and even her scalp can be incredibly sensitive if touched the right way. Start with light massages or slow, deliberate strokes and see where it takes you.
I also recommend trying longer build-ups. Foreplay isn’t just a warm-up; for some women, it’s the main event. If clitoral stimulation isn’t working, spend time on kissing, teasing, and exploring other areas. Using your voice can also be incredibly powerful—whispering, dirty talk, or even just affirming how beautiful she is can set the tone for a deeper connection.
Remember, every woman is different, and what works for one might not work for another. Keep experimenting, keep communicating, and most importantly, keep showing her that you care. You’re doing great just by being willing to learn and grow together. That kind of effort means everything.
For women with reduced clitoral sensation, it can help to shift the focus to the entire body. Erogenous zones aren’t just limited to the obvious areas. Her back, shoulders, and even her scalp can be incredibly sensitive if touched the right way. Start with light massages or slow, deliberate strokes and see where it takes you.
I also recommend trying longer build-ups. Foreplay isn’t just a warm-up; for some women, it’s the main event. If clitoral stimulation isn’t working, spend time on kissing, teasing, and exploring other areas. Using your voice can also be incredibly powerful—whispering, dirty talk, or even just affirming how beautiful she is can set the tone for a deeper connection.
Remember, every woman is different, and what works for one might not work for another. Keep experimenting, keep communicating, and most importantly, keep showing her that you care. You’re doing great just by being willing to learn and grow together. That kind of effort means everything.