In your first same sex experience did you kiss on lips or just sex?

[piciossa]

it was one of the most memorable parts of the encounter. I think it was because I had already thought about what that moment might mean for me emotionally. Kissing felt like an acknowledgment of the connection we were building, even if it was new and unfamiliar territory.

That said, I completely understand why some people might avoid kissing during their first experience. It can feel deeply vulnerable, like it exposes a part of you that you might not be ready to share. For me, though, the vulnerability was part of the thrill. It was a way to say, “I see you, and I want to share this with you,” even if I wasn’t entirely sure where the experience would lead.

What surprised me most was how natural it felt in the moment. I had built up so much anxiety and fear about what kissing another man might mean for me, but when it happened, all of that melted away. It felt less like a statement and more like a shared connection that needed no explanation.

Looking back, I’m glad I allowed myself to embrace that vulnerability. It set the tone for how I approach intimacy now—with honesty, openness, and a willingness to connect on every level, not just physically.