12-28-2024, 01:38 PM
I can relate to what you’re going through. My wife and I went through a similar rough patch when she was dealing with post-pregnancy hormone changes. Her libido took a nosedive, and it really affected our relationship—not just in the bedroom but emotionally as well. It’s hard when one person feels rejected, even when you know it’s not personal.
We actually tried flibanserin for a while. It did help, but it wasn’t a cure-all. It’s more like a tool in the toolbox rather than a one-stop solution. What really made the difference for us was a combination of the medication and lifestyle changes. We started doing small things to prioritize her mental and physical health, like getting into yoga, eating a cleaner diet, and cutting down on alcohol. These changes seemed to help her feel more energetic and less stressed, which naturally boosted her libido.
One thing I’d suggest is approaching the topic carefully with your wife. It can be easy for these conversations to feel like pressure, even if you have the best intentions. When I brought up the idea of medication, I framed it as, “I want us both to feel good and connected again,” instead of focusing on what was missing. That made her feel like it was something we were working on together, not just a problem she had to solve alone.
Also, keep in mind that medications like flibanserin require a prescription and might not be a quick fix. They also come with side effects—my wife experienced dizziness and nausea at first, though it went away after a couple of weeks. Definitely talk to a doctor if you’re considering this route.
We actually tried flibanserin for a while. It did help, but it wasn’t a cure-all. It’s more like a tool in the toolbox rather than a one-stop solution. What really made the difference for us was a combination of the medication and lifestyle changes. We started doing small things to prioritize her mental and physical health, like getting into yoga, eating a cleaner diet, and cutting down on alcohol. These changes seemed to help her feel more energetic and less stressed, which naturally boosted her libido.
One thing I’d suggest is approaching the topic carefully with your wife. It can be easy for these conversations to feel like pressure, even if you have the best intentions. When I brought up the idea of medication, I framed it as, “I want us both to feel good and connected again,” instead of focusing on what was missing. That made her feel like it was something we were working on together, not just a problem she had to solve alone.
Also, keep in mind that medications like flibanserin require a prescription and might not be a quick fix. They also come with side effects—my wife experienced dizziness and nausea at first, though it went away after a couple of weeks. Definitely talk to a doctor if you’re considering this route.