12-27-2024, 01:47 PM
It’s clear you’re putting in the effort to improve your sexual experiences, which is something a lot of people overlook. The first thing I’d say is don’t forget to loop your partner into this process. Open communication can make all the difference.
When it comes to products, I’ve personally found that Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms work really well. They have a numbing lubricant that doesn’t completely kill the sensation but does take the edge off. If you’re considering creams, Promescent is one of the more reputable brands, but as others have said, test it out first to make sure you’re comfortable with how it feels.
I also think it might help to focus on exploring new ways to connect with your partner. If doggy style is overwhelming, maybe experiment with positions that give you more control or allow for a slower pace. And if you’re open to it, trying things like edging during solo sessions can help you build stamina and learn to manage those overwhelming sensations.
Lastly, remember that this is a process. It might take a few tries to find the right combination of products and techniques, but that’s totally normal. The fact that you’re willing to experiment and improve shows that you’re on the right track. Just keep at it, and don’t be afraid to seek professional advice if needed—sometimes a quick chat with a urologist or sex therapist can provide insights you wouldn’t think of on your own.
When it comes to products, I’ve personally found that Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms work really well. They have a numbing lubricant that doesn’t completely kill the sensation but does take the edge off. If you’re considering creams, Promescent is one of the more reputable brands, but as others have said, test it out first to make sure you’re comfortable with how it feels.
I also think it might help to focus on exploring new ways to connect with your partner. If doggy style is overwhelming, maybe experiment with positions that give you more control or allow for a slower pace. And if you’re open to it, trying things like edging during solo sessions can help you build stamina and learn to manage those overwhelming sensations.
Lastly, remember that this is a process. It might take a few tries to find the right combination of products and techniques, but that’s totally normal. The fact that you’re willing to experiment and improve shows that you’re on the right track. Just keep at it, and don’t be afraid to seek professional advice if needed—sometimes a quick chat with a urologist or sex therapist can provide insights you wouldn’t think of on your own.