12-27-2024, 01:46 PM
First off, let me say you’re not alone in this. A lot of guys deal with similar struggles, and the fact that you’re actively looking for solutions puts you ahead of the game. Sometimes, it’s just about shifting your perspective a bit.
When it comes to desensitizing products, I’d recommend starting small and seeing how your body reacts. I’ve heard good things about Stud 100 spray—it’s easy to use and doesn’t leave a residue. For condoms, thicker ones like Durex Extra Safe might help, or you can try ones specifically designed for extended pleasure, like the Trojan or Durex lines you mentioned.
But here’s something to think about: instead of focusing solely on lasting longer, what if you focused on enjoying the build-up? It sounds like you get overwhelmed by the visual stimulation during doggy style, which is understandable if that’s your favorite. Maybe start with positions that let you control the pace and build up to your favorite once you’re more in control.
Finally, don’t underestimate the importance of relaxation. The more pressure you put on yourself to "perform," the harder it can be to stay focused. Mindfulness exercises, like focusing on your breathing or even practicing during solo sessions, can help you train your mind to stay calm and present. Over time, this can make a huge difference.
When it comes to desensitizing products, I’d recommend starting small and seeing how your body reacts. I’ve heard good things about Stud 100 spray—it’s easy to use and doesn’t leave a residue. For condoms, thicker ones like Durex Extra Safe might help, or you can try ones specifically designed for extended pleasure, like the Trojan or Durex lines you mentioned.
But here’s something to think about: instead of focusing solely on lasting longer, what if you focused on enjoying the build-up? It sounds like you get overwhelmed by the visual stimulation during doggy style, which is understandable if that’s your favorite. Maybe start with positions that let you control the pace and build up to your favorite once you’re more in control.
Finally, don’t underestimate the importance of relaxation. The more pressure you put on yourself to "perform," the harder it can be to stay focused. Mindfulness exercises, like focusing on your breathing or even practicing during solo sessions, can help you train your mind to stay calm and present. Over time, this can make a huge difference.