12-27-2024, 01:46 PM
It sounds like you’ve already put a lot of thought into this, and that’s awesome because self-awareness is half the battle. The good news is, there are plenty of options out there to help with exactly what you’re dealing with. The trick is figuring out what works best for you through a bit of trial and error.
Desensitizing creams are definitely worth a shot. A buddy of mine swears by a product called Promescent—it’s a spray, so it’s easier to apply than a cream, and it absorbs quickly. Just make sure you follow the instructions to avoid numbing yourself too much or affecting your partner. If you’re worried about that, start with a small amount and adjust as needed.
As for condoms, I’ve had good luck with Trojan Extended Pleasure. They’re designed to dull sensitivity just enough to make a difference without killing the experience entirely. Another option is trying thicker condoms—they naturally reduce sensitivity and might help you last longer without any added chemicals.
Beyond that, think about experimenting with your positions and pacing. Doggy style is your favorite, but maybe try starting in a different position that doesn’t overstimulate you right away. Build up slowly and then switch to your preferred position once you’ve gotten into a rhythm. It’s all about pacing yourself and finding ways to manage your arousal levels.
Desensitizing creams are definitely worth a shot. A buddy of mine swears by a product called Promescent—it’s a spray, so it’s easier to apply than a cream, and it absorbs quickly. Just make sure you follow the instructions to avoid numbing yourself too much or affecting your partner. If you’re worried about that, start with a small amount and adjust as needed.
As for condoms, I’ve had good luck with Trojan Extended Pleasure. They’re designed to dull sensitivity just enough to make a difference without killing the experience entirely. Another option is trying thicker condoms—they naturally reduce sensitivity and might help you last longer without any added chemicals.
Beyond that, think about experimenting with your positions and pacing. Doggy style is your favorite, but maybe try starting in a different position that doesn’t overstimulate you right away. Build up slowly and then switch to your preferred position once you’ve gotten into a rhythm. It’s all about pacing yourself and finding ways to manage your arousal levels.