12-27-2024, 01:46 PM
Your situation sounds super relatable, especially the part about being overwhelmed during your favorite position. It’s great that you’re exploring solutions like desensitizing products, but I think a lot of your challenge is tied to mental focus, as you mentioned. The way you described using Adderall in the past really caught my attention—it shows that a sharper mental state can help you gain better control.
Have you tried specific breathing techniques during sex? A lot of guys underestimate how much controlled breathing can help delay arousal. When you feel yourself getting overwhelmed, slow your breathing and focus on steady, deep breaths. This helps lower your heart rate and keeps you in control of the sensations. It might sound simple, but with practice, it can make a noticeable difference.
In terms of desensitizing products, I’d recommend starting with condoms that have a mild numbing agent. They’re less messy than creams and easier to incorporate. I’ve used Durex Performax Intense, and it worked pretty well for me. If condoms don’t give you the results you’re looking for, then move on to creams as a next step. Just remember, not every product works the same for everyone, so don’t be discouraged if it takes a little trial and error.
Also, don’t forget about the power of foreplay. The more you engage with your partner before penetration, the less pressure there is to "perform" perfectly once you get to the main act. It gives you both more time to enjoy each other and can help take some of the edge off.
Have you tried specific breathing techniques during sex? A lot of guys underestimate how much controlled breathing can help delay arousal. When you feel yourself getting overwhelmed, slow your breathing and focus on steady, deep breaths. This helps lower your heart rate and keeps you in control of the sensations. It might sound simple, but with practice, it can make a noticeable difference.
In terms of desensitizing products, I’d recommend starting with condoms that have a mild numbing agent. They’re less messy than creams and easier to incorporate. I’ve used Durex Performax Intense, and it worked pretty well for me. If condoms don’t give you the results you’re looking for, then move on to creams as a next step. Just remember, not every product works the same for everyone, so don’t be discouraged if it takes a little trial and error.
Also, don’t forget about the power of foreplay. The more you engage with your partner before penetration, the less pressure there is to "perform" perfectly once you get to the main act. It gives you both more time to enjoy each other and can help take some of the edge off.