12-27-2024, 01:43 PM
I was in a similar spot. I remember feeling like I was on autopilot—going through the motions but not really enjoying any of it. It wasn’t until I took a step back and asked myself, "What do I actually want out of this experience?" that things started to change.
For me, the answer was simple: I wanted sex to be fun again. I stopped worrying about techniques and started focusing on the little things that made me and my partner laugh or smile during the act. Whether it was a playful comment, a funny mistake, or just being silly, those moments reminded me why sex was so enjoyable in the first place.
Another thing that worked for me was shifting the focus from intercourse to foreplay. I started seeing foreplay as the main event rather than just a warm-up. It gave me and my partner more time to connect, explore, and enjoy each other without the pressure of "performing."
At the end of the day, I think the key is to stop overthinking it. Sex isn’t supposed to be perfect—it’s supposed to be messy, fun, and full of surprises. When you let go of the need to control everything, you might find that the enjoyment naturally comes back.
For me, the answer was simple: I wanted sex to be fun again. I stopped worrying about techniques and started focusing on the little things that made me and my partner laugh or smile during the act. Whether it was a playful comment, a funny mistake, or just being silly, those moments reminded me why sex was so enjoyable in the first place.
Another thing that worked for me was shifting the focus from intercourse to foreplay. I started seeing foreplay as the main event rather than just a warm-up. It gave me and my partner more time to connect, explore, and enjoy each other without the pressure of "performing."
At the end of the day, I think the key is to stop overthinking it. Sex isn’t supposed to be perfect—it’s supposed to be messy, fun, and full of surprises. When you let go of the need to control everything, you might find that the enjoyment naturally comes back.