12-27-2024, 12:26 PM
It sounds like you’re both dealing with a mix of excitement and anxiety, which is completely normal when you’re new to this. The height difference definitely makes things a little more complicated, but the good news is that with a bit of experimentation and patience, you can find what works for you both.
One thing I’d emphasize is making sure you’re fully relaxed before trying anything. If either of you is nervous or tense, it can make penetration more difficult or even painful. Focus on foreplay, take your time, and don’t rush into things. Using a lubricant can also help a lot—it reduces friction and makes the experience much more comfortable.
When it comes to positions, starting with something simple and low-pressure is best. Missionary with slight adjustments (like using a pillow under your hips) can help with alignment. Alternatively, try the woman-on-top position, where you can control the depth and pace. Spooning is another great option for a more relaxed, gentle experience.
The most important thing is to communicate. Talk about what’s working and what isn’t, and don’t be afraid to stop and try again another time if something doesn’t feel right. This is a learning process for both of you, and it’s okay if it takes a few tries to figure things out.
One thing I’d emphasize is making sure you’re fully relaxed before trying anything. If either of you is nervous or tense, it can make penetration more difficult or even painful. Focus on foreplay, take your time, and don’t rush into things. Using a lubricant can also help a lot—it reduces friction and makes the experience much more comfortable.
When it comes to positions, starting with something simple and low-pressure is best. Missionary with slight adjustments (like using a pillow under your hips) can help with alignment. Alternatively, try the woman-on-top position, where you can control the depth and pace. Spooning is another great option for a more relaxed, gentle experience.
The most important thing is to communicate. Talk about what’s working and what isn’t, and don’t be afraid to stop and try again another time if something doesn’t feel right. This is a learning process for both of you, and it’s okay if it takes a few tries to figure things out.