12-27-2024, 12:24 PM
I feel for you. It’s tough when intimacy starts to disappear from a relationship, especially when it used to be such a big part of your connection. It sounds like you’re both caught in a cycle where life has taken over, and neither of you knows how to break free from it.
Her teasing texts tell me she still wants to connect with you, but something is stopping her from following through. Stress and exhaustion from her new 9-5 could be a big factor. Even if she’s not saying it, she might be feeling overwhelmed and struggling to balance work, life, and your relationship.
One idea is to create moments where she can relax and decompress without any expectations. Maybe she just needs some time to feel like herself again before she’s ready to engage intimately. Think about how you can show her support, whether it’s through small acts of kindness, planning a fun outing, or even just being there to listen.
Finally, open up a conversation where you both can share how you’re feeling without judgment. Let her know that you miss the connection you used to have and that you’re willing to work together to bring it back. Sometimes, all it takes is a fresh perspective and a little patience to turn things around. You’re both in this together, and that’s what matters most.
Her teasing texts tell me she still wants to connect with you, but something is stopping her from following through. Stress and exhaustion from her new 9-5 could be a big factor. Even if she’s not saying it, she might be feeling overwhelmed and struggling to balance work, life, and your relationship.
One idea is to create moments where she can relax and decompress without any expectations. Maybe she just needs some time to feel like herself again before she’s ready to engage intimately. Think about how you can show her support, whether it’s through small acts of kindness, planning a fun outing, or even just being there to listen.
Finally, open up a conversation where you both can share how you’re feeling without judgment. Let her know that you miss the connection you used to have and that you’re willing to work together to bring it back. Sometimes, all it takes is a fresh perspective and a little patience to turn things around. You’re both in this together, and that’s what matters most.