12-27-2024, 12:19 PM
I hear you, man. It’s frustrating when you feel like you can’t make the most of the rare opportunities you get. I’ve been in the same boat before, and I know how much it sucks. The good news is there are definitely things you can try to help with this.
In terms of meds, Dapoxetine is a good option because it’s specifically made for PE. I’ve tried it, and it definitely helped me last longer. Tramadol also works, but I’d be careful with that one—it’s a painkiller, and using it for PE can lead to dependency if you’re not careful. Paroxetine is another option, but it’s an antidepressant, so it can come with side effects that might not be worth it. Definitely talk to a doctor before trying anything, though.
If you’re looking for something less intense, desensitizing sprays are a great alternative. They’re easy to use, and you don’t need a prescription. I’ve also heard good things about thicker condoms for reducing sensitivity, though they might not feel as natural. And if you want to put in the work, practicing control techniques during masturbation can really help build your stamina over time.
The mental side is huge too. When sex isn’t a regular thing, it’s easy to put way too much pressure on yourself to perform perfectly. That pressure can make things worse, so try to focus on enjoying the moment rather than stressing about how long you’re lasting. You’ve got this, man—just keep experimenting until you find what works for you.
In terms of meds, Dapoxetine is a good option because it’s specifically made for PE. I’ve tried it, and it definitely helped me last longer. Tramadol also works, but I’d be careful with that one—it’s a painkiller, and using it for PE can lead to dependency if you’re not careful. Paroxetine is another option, but it’s an antidepressant, so it can come with side effects that might not be worth it. Definitely talk to a doctor before trying anything, though.
If you’re looking for something less intense, desensitizing sprays are a great alternative. They’re easy to use, and you don’t need a prescription. I’ve also heard good things about thicker condoms for reducing sensitivity, though they might not feel as natural. And if you want to put in the work, practicing control techniques during masturbation can really help build your stamina over time.
The mental side is huge too. When sex isn’t a regular thing, it’s easy to put way too much pressure on yourself to perform perfectly. That pressure can make things worse, so try to focus on enjoying the moment rather than stressing about how long you’re lasting. You’ve got this, man—just keep experimenting until you find what works for you.