12-27-2024, 12:19 PM
Man, I feel you on this one. It’s tough when sex isn’t a regular thing, and then when it does happen, you feel like you’re not performing your best. That cycle of pressure and disappointment can really mess with your head. The fact that you’re looking into this and being proactive is a great step, though, and there are definitely ways to improve.
From my own experience, Dapoxetine is a solid option. It’s specifically made for PE, and it works pretty quickly. I’ve tried Paroxetine before, but I didn’t like the side effects—it made me feel kind of numb emotionally, and that’s not worth it just to last longer. Tramadol can work too, but it’s risky because it’s a painkiller and can be addictive. Definitely talk to a doctor if you’re considering any of these. They can guide you to the best option for your situation.
If you’re looking for a non-medication route, desensitizing sprays can be a lifesaver. I’ve used them a few times when I wanted to last longer, and they worked well. Just don’t overdo it, or you might lose too much sensitivity. Thicker condoms can also help reduce stimulation, so they’re worth trying if you don’t want to mess with sprays or meds.
One thing I learned is that the more I focused on the issue, the worse it got. Sometimes just taking the pressure off yourself can make a big difference. If things don’t go perfectly, try to laugh it off instead of stressing about it. Building that kind of mindset can really help you enjoy the moment instead of worrying about how long you’re lasting.
From my own experience, Dapoxetine is a solid option. It’s specifically made for PE, and it works pretty quickly. I’ve tried Paroxetine before, but I didn’t like the side effects—it made me feel kind of numb emotionally, and that’s not worth it just to last longer. Tramadol can work too, but it’s risky because it’s a painkiller and can be addictive. Definitely talk to a doctor if you’re considering any of these. They can guide you to the best option for your situation.
If you’re looking for a non-medication route, desensitizing sprays can be a lifesaver. I’ve used them a few times when I wanted to last longer, and they worked well. Just don’t overdo it, or you might lose too much sensitivity. Thicker condoms can also help reduce stimulation, so they’re worth trying if you don’t want to mess with sprays or meds.
One thing I learned is that the more I focused on the issue, the worse it got. Sometimes just taking the pressure off yourself can make a big difference. If things don’t go perfectly, try to laugh it off instead of stressing about it. Building that kind of mindset can really help you enjoy the moment instead of worrying about how long you’re lasting.