12-27-2024, 12:14 PM
Bro, first of all, let me say—you’re not alone. There are plenty of guys dealing with prostatitis and the emotional toll it takes, even if it feels like you’re the only one sometimes. What you’re going through is incredibly tough, and it’s made even harder by how society puts so much emphasis on sex as this measure of manhood. But trust me, your value isn’t determined by your sexual history or how “perfect” your first time is.
The girl you’ve met sounds amazing, and it’s clear she sees something special in you. That’s huge, man. It’s also worth noting that she’s stuck around through multiple dates and hangouts. If she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t be putting in that kind of time and effort. That shows she’s interested in you as a person, not just the physical side of things. That’s the kind of foundation you want in a relationship.
On the physical side, I know prostatitis can feel like a brick wall, but there are ways to manage it. Have you looked into pelvic floor physical therapy or even speaking with a urologist who specializes in chronic pain? It might not fix everything, but every little improvement counts. You might also consider finding a counselor or therapist who can help you work through the emotional side of this. Sometimes having someone to talk to can lighten the load and give you tools to handle the anxiety.
When it comes to sex, don’t feel like you have to rush into it or meet some imaginary standard. If and when you’re ready to take that step, focus on communicating openly with her about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re dealing with. If she’s the right person, she’ll care more about making it a good experience for both of you than anything else.
The girl you’ve met sounds amazing, and it’s clear she sees something special in you. That’s huge, man. It’s also worth noting that she’s stuck around through multiple dates and hangouts. If she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t be putting in that kind of time and effort. That shows she’s interested in you as a person, not just the physical side of things. That’s the kind of foundation you want in a relationship.
On the physical side, I know prostatitis can feel like a brick wall, but there are ways to manage it. Have you looked into pelvic floor physical therapy or even speaking with a urologist who specializes in chronic pain? It might not fix everything, but every little improvement counts. You might also consider finding a counselor or therapist who can help you work through the emotional side of this. Sometimes having someone to talk to can lighten the load and give you tools to handle the anxiety.
When it comes to sex, don’t feel like you have to rush into it or meet some imaginary standard. If and when you’re ready to take that step, focus on communicating openly with her about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re dealing with. If she’s the right person, she’ll care more about making it a good experience for both of you than anything else.