12-27-2024, 12:14 PM
Man, I’ve got to give you credit for being so open about what you’re going through—it’s not easy to lay it all out there like that. Prostatitis is a beast to deal with, and I can’t imagine how much courage it’s taken to just keep pushing forward. The fact that you’ve met someone who makes you feel this way is huge, though. That connection could be the first step toward something meaningful, even if it’s scary right now.
About your health, have you considered seeking a second opinion or revisiting treatment options? Chronic prostatitis can be tricky, but there are specialists who focus on pelvic pain and related conditions. Sometimes alternative treatments, like physical therapy for the pelvic floor or even certain dietary changes, can make a difference. It might be worth exploring, especially if it could improve your quality of life overall, not just in the bedroom.
I also want to address the mental block you’ve mentioned. That girl at the party? She was out of line, plain and simple. Her actions and words don’t define your worth or your abilities as a partner. It’s easy to let one bad experience take up way more space in your mind than it deserves, but don’t let her negativity overshadow the good things happening in your life now. The fact that this new girl is spending time with you and enjoying your company says a lot about her character and your potential together.
As for your fear about intimacy, take it one step at a time. Maybe start by focusing on building trust and emotional closeness with her before jumping into anything physical. When the time feels right, you can have an open conversation about your health and your concerns. If she’s as great as you think she is, she’ll appreciate your honesty and want to work through it with you.
About your health, have you considered seeking a second opinion or revisiting treatment options? Chronic prostatitis can be tricky, but there are specialists who focus on pelvic pain and related conditions. Sometimes alternative treatments, like physical therapy for the pelvic floor or even certain dietary changes, can make a difference. It might be worth exploring, especially if it could improve your quality of life overall, not just in the bedroom.
I also want to address the mental block you’ve mentioned. That girl at the party? She was out of line, plain and simple. Her actions and words don’t define your worth or your abilities as a partner. It’s easy to let one bad experience take up way more space in your mind than it deserves, but don’t let her negativity overshadow the good things happening in your life now. The fact that this new girl is spending time with you and enjoying your company says a lot about her character and your potential together.
As for your fear about intimacy, take it one step at a time. Maybe start by focusing on building trust and emotional closeness with her before jumping into anything physical. When the time feels right, you can have an open conversation about your health and your concerns. If she’s as great as you think she is, she’ll appreciate your honesty and want to work through it with you.