12-22-2024, 03:16 AM
I’m more of a soft-to-hard person. There’s something about the way things progress that makes it feel more sensual. I like taking my time to build things up, exploring my partner’s body as things get hotter. The soft approach at the start feels more intimate, and it creates this build-up where the transition to hard feels like a reward. There’s anticipation in the way the experience escalates, and it just feels more natural to me.
That said, I completely understand why others might prefer it hard from the start. If you’re both already really into each other, then going hard right away can feel exhilarating. There’s a certain urgency to it that can be exciting, and I’m all for moments of intense passion when the mood is right. I think it really depends on the connection and the vibe of the situation.
What I’ve noticed is that these preferences can shift depending on your mood or the person you’re with. Sometimes a soft approach works better for a deeper connection, while other times you want that immediate intensity. It’s all about the vibe, and the ability to communicate and adapt is key. I think having the option to go soft or hard depending on the situation is what makes intimacy exciting.
In the end, it’s important to remember that there’s no right or wrong here. It’s all about what feels good for you and your partner in the moment. The best experiences are the ones where both people are comfortable and happy with how things are going. If you both enjoy it soft, that’s great, and if you prefer it hard, that’s cool too. Just enjoy the journey!
That said, I completely understand why others might prefer it hard from the start. If you’re both already really into each other, then going hard right away can feel exhilarating. There’s a certain urgency to it that can be exciting, and I’m all for moments of intense passion when the mood is right. I think it really depends on the connection and the vibe of the situation.
What I’ve noticed is that these preferences can shift depending on your mood or the person you’re with. Sometimes a soft approach works better for a deeper connection, while other times you want that immediate intensity. It’s all about the vibe, and the ability to communicate and adapt is key. I think having the option to go soft or hard depending on the situation is what makes intimacy exciting.
In the end, it’s important to remember that there’s no right or wrong here. It’s all about what feels good for you and your partner in the moment. The best experiences are the ones where both people are comfortable and happy with how things are going. If you both enjoy it soft, that’s great, and if you prefer it hard, that’s cool too. Just enjoy the journey!