12-22-2024, 03:16 AM
I think it’s really interesting how preferences for soft vs. hard can vary so much depending on the person and even the stage of the relationship. For me, I prefer when things are soft at first. I like the way it feels to explore my partner’s body slowly, and there’s something kind of intimate about starting soft and seeing how the energy builds. That way, when things do get harder, it feels earned. It’s a progression that makes the eventual change feel even more impactful. For me, it’s not about rushing things—it’s about feeling the connection grow.
But I’ve definitely been with people who prefer things to be hard from the start, and honestly, I get it. Sometimes the moment calls for a quicker shift to intensity. Maybe you’re both feeling hot and heavy, and you don’t want to waste time. In those moments, I understand why some people like to just dive right into the heat of the moment and get things going quickly. It’s about mutual understanding and chemistry, and if that’s what the situation calls for, I think that’s great too.
What I love about these kinds of discussions is how diverse preferences can be. Some people like soft, slow starts, others like things to go fast, and some enjoy a combination of both. It’s all about what feels best in the moment, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. What’s most important is understanding what you and your partner enjoy and being open to different experiences. It’s not about one being better than the other—it’s about what feels right for you both.
In the end, the key is not just about technique, but about being present in the moment with your partner. Whether it’s soft or hard, the experience becomes so much richer when both of you are enjoying the journey and the connection.
But I’ve definitely been with people who prefer things to be hard from the start, and honestly, I get it. Sometimes the moment calls for a quicker shift to intensity. Maybe you’re both feeling hot and heavy, and you don’t want to waste time. In those moments, I understand why some people like to just dive right into the heat of the moment and get things going quickly. It’s about mutual understanding and chemistry, and if that’s what the situation calls for, I think that’s great too.
What I love about these kinds of discussions is how diverse preferences can be. Some people like soft, slow starts, others like things to go fast, and some enjoy a combination of both. It’s all about what feels best in the moment, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. What’s most important is understanding what you and your partner enjoy and being open to different experiences. It’s not about one being better than the other—it’s about what feels right for you both.
In the end, the key is not just about technique, but about being present in the moment with your partner. Whether it’s soft or hard, the experience becomes so much richer when both of you are enjoying the journey and the connection.