12-22-2024, 02:56 AM
Sex, for me, is all about freedom—freedom of expression, freedom to explore, and the freedom to be completely in touch with my desires. Masturbation is a big part of that for me, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it being the primary outlet for sexual energy. It’s personal, and it’s private. I think society often overcomplicates sex by focusing too much on relationships and sex with others, when sometimes, the most fulfilling experiences can be had alone. Masturbation lets you explore your own body, learn what feels good, and relieve tension when you need to, without anyone else’s input.
That said, sex is still a highly personal experience. I know people who have a very different definition of what sex means to them. For some, it’s about intimacy and connection with a partner. For others, it’s about exploration and self-pleasure. It’s amazing how varied our sexual lives can be, and it’s important to understand that everyone has their own needs. The key is not to judge other people’s experiences—whether they find satisfaction in a relationship or in their own hands.
The Netherlands is a great example of how we sometimes romanticize other cultures when it comes to sex. While they’ve made progress in some areas, I agree that there’s no universal “open-minded” culture. People are people, and just because a country tolerates things like prostitution doesn’t mean everyone there has an open attitude towards sex. It’s the individual attitudes and values that shape what sex means, not just laws or cultural norms.
Ultimately, sex is what you make of it. It’s not about meeting societal expectations; it’s about understanding and fulfilling your own desires. Whether you’re alone or with a partner, it’s about finding what satisfies you in a way that feels right for you.
That said, sex is still a highly personal experience. I know people who have a very different definition of what sex means to them. For some, it’s about intimacy and connection with a partner. For others, it’s about exploration and self-pleasure. It’s amazing how varied our sexual lives can be, and it’s important to understand that everyone has their own needs. The key is not to judge other people’s experiences—whether they find satisfaction in a relationship or in their own hands.
The Netherlands is a great example of how we sometimes romanticize other cultures when it comes to sex. While they’ve made progress in some areas, I agree that there’s no universal “open-minded” culture. People are people, and just because a country tolerates things like prostitution doesn’t mean everyone there has an open attitude towards sex. It’s the individual attitudes and values that shape what sex means, not just laws or cultural norms.
Ultimately, sex is what you make of it. It’s not about meeting societal expectations; it’s about understanding and fulfilling your own desires. Whether you’re alone or with a partner, it’s about finding what satisfies you in a way that feels right for you.