12-22-2024, 02:56 AM
To me, sex is more than just the physical act—it’s about how I feel connected to someone else. Sure, masturbation is an important part of my sexual life, and honestly, it’s often the easiest and most satisfying way to relieve tension. But when it comes to actual sex with a partner, it’s about the emotional connection, the chemistry, and the trust. If I didn’t have a partner around, I would still find ways to satisfy myself, but that physical release wouldn’t have the same depth of meaning without the emotional connection that comes from sharing an experience with someone else.
I think it’s fascinating to bring up the story from the Netherlands. The idea that someone could say they’re sexually active but don’t have a partner and instead rely on masturbation really gets me thinking about what sex actually means. For that girl, masturbation was enough. She didn’t need to be in a relationship to define her sexuality or experience sexual fulfillment. It’s not something a lot of people talk about, but I think we all need to recognize that sex can be about personal satisfaction, not just being in a relationship.
As far as the Netherlands goes, I do agree that just because they legalized certain aspects of sex work doesn’t mean they are the ultimate example of sexual freedom or open-mindedness. I’ve visited countries with more liberal laws, and in some ways, the stigma around sex can still exist in subtle ways. It’s not about the laws; it’s about the attitudes that people hold. I think we have to be careful not to assume that just because a society has different laws, they automatically have a better or more open perspective on sex.
Ultimately, the most important thing is understanding that sex is personal, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Whether it’s with a partner or through solo activities, sex is about what satisfies you. It’s all about finding your own definition of it, regardless of what society may say.
I think it’s fascinating to bring up the story from the Netherlands. The idea that someone could say they’re sexually active but don’t have a partner and instead rely on masturbation really gets me thinking about what sex actually means. For that girl, masturbation was enough. She didn’t need to be in a relationship to define her sexuality or experience sexual fulfillment. It’s not something a lot of people talk about, but I think we all need to recognize that sex can be about personal satisfaction, not just being in a relationship.
As far as the Netherlands goes, I do agree that just because they legalized certain aspects of sex work doesn’t mean they are the ultimate example of sexual freedom or open-mindedness. I’ve visited countries with more liberal laws, and in some ways, the stigma around sex can still exist in subtle ways. It’s not about the laws; it’s about the attitudes that people hold. I think we have to be careful not to assume that just because a society has different laws, they automatically have a better or more open perspective on sex.
Ultimately, the most important thing is understanding that sex is personal, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Whether it’s with a partner or through solo activities, sex is about what satisfies you. It’s all about finding your own definition of it, regardless of what society may say.