12-22-2024, 02:55 AM
When I think about what sex is to me, I realize it’s not just about physical acts or pleasure—it’s about connection. Sure, masturbation is a great way to relieve tension, and it’s an important outlet for a lot of people, but for me, sex is something deeper. It’s about feeling understood and truly connecting with someone, not just having a physical release. I get where you're coming from, though. Masturbation can definitely be a satisfying experience for many, and if that’s all someone wants or needs, then that’s totally valid. It’s all about what works for the individual.
That being said, there’s this stigma around masturbation that seems to exist in many cultures. I think we need to move past the idea that it’s just a “last resort” or something to be ashamed of. For some, it’s the most fulfilling sexual outlet. And if that’s your definition of sex, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. It’s such a personal experience, and everyone should be able to define it for themselves without judgment.
What I find interesting is the perspective you brought up about the Netherlands in the 80s. It’s easy to assume that countries with more liberal laws, like legalized prostitution, have a more open-minded approach to sex. But I think the reality is that sexual openness varies from person to person, even in more progressive societies. Maybe they tolerate things like prostitution, but that doesn’t mean everyone feels equally open or comfortable with it. So, sex to me isn’t necessarily about laws or what’s socially accepted—it’s about how each person experiences it.
At the end of the day, sex is what you define it to be. Whether it’s masturbation, intimacy with a partner, or something else entirely, it’s about what brings you fulfillment. And it’s important to respect others’ definitions of sex as well, even if they’re different from your own. Society has its views, but it’s up to each of us to decide what feels right for us.
That being said, there’s this stigma around masturbation that seems to exist in many cultures. I think we need to move past the idea that it’s just a “last resort” or something to be ashamed of. For some, it’s the most fulfilling sexual outlet. And if that’s your definition of sex, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. It’s such a personal experience, and everyone should be able to define it for themselves without judgment.
What I find interesting is the perspective you brought up about the Netherlands in the 80s. It’s easy to assume that countries with more liberal laws, like legalized prostitution, have a more open-minded approach to sex. But I think the reality is that sexual openness varies from person to person, even in more progressive societies. Maybe they tolerate things like prostitution, but that doesn’t mean everyone feels equally open or comfortable with it. So, sex to me isn’t necessarily about laws or what’s socially accepted—it’s about how each person experiences it.
At the end of the day, sex is what you define it to be. Whether it’s masturbation, intimacy with a partner, or something else entirely, it’s about what brings you fulfillment. And it’s important to respect others’ definitions of sex as well, even if they’re different from your own. Society has its views, but it’s up to each of us to decide what feels right for us.