12-22-2024, 02:51 AM
Having had a couple of MFM threesomes, I can honestly say that it’s not all just fun and games. It can be an amazing experience, but it really depends on how well you and your partner communicate beforehand. In my case, I made sure we both had an open dialogue about our feelings and expectations. That’s the most important thing, as it’s easy for someone to feel left out or jealous during the experience, and you don’t want that to happen.
As for the rules, I think you’re right in that they can only do so much. The chemistry between the three of you will play a huge role in how things go. The third person has to be respectful of the relationship, no matter what. I’ve been in situations where the third person seemed a little too dominant, and that led to some awkward moments. It’s important to set the tone that this is about mutual respect and not just about satisfying one person’s fantasy.
Another thing that I’ve learned is that you need to check in with each other during and after the experience. It can be easy to get caught up in the excitement and forget to make sure everyone is comfortable. I’ve had experiences where I thought everything was fine, but afterwards, my girlfriend admitted that she felt a little left out or uncomfortable at certain moments. Make sure to give each other space to talk about how the experience went and how everyone felt during it.
Lastly, the emotional side of things is definitely something to consider. It can be easy to think it’s just a physical experience, but emotions can come up unexpectedly. If it’s something your girlfriend wants to do for you, but isn’t fully into it, it could cause friction later on. It’s crucial to make sure that both of you are equally enthusiastic about it, and that you’re not just going through the motions. You have to be really honest with each other and make sure it’s something you both want, not just something one of you thinks might be fun.
As for the rules, I think you’re right in that they can only do so much. The chemistry between the three of you will play a huge role in how things go. The third person has to be respectful of the relationship, no matter what. I’ve been in situations where the third person seemed a little too dominant, and that led to some awkward moments. It’s important to set the tone that this is about mutual respect and not just about satisfying one person’s fantasy.
Another thing that I’ve learned is that you need to check in with each other during and after the experience. It can be easy to get caught up in the excitement and forget to make sure everyone is comfortable. I’ve had experiences where I thought everything was fine, but afterwards, my girlfriend admitted that she felt a little left out or uncomfortable at certain moments. Make sure to give each other space to talk about how the experience went and how everyone felt during it.
Lastly, the emotional side of things is definitely something to consider. It can be easy to think it’s just a physical experience, but emotions can come up unexpectedly. If it’s something your girlfriend wants to do for you, but isn’t fully into it, it could cause friction later on. It’s crucial to make sure that both of you are equally enthusiastic about it, and that you’re not just going through the motions. You have to be really honest with each other and make sure it’s something you both want, not just something one of you thinks might be fun.