12-22-2024, 02:51 AM
I’ve had a few experiences with threesomes in my relationships, and I’ll tell you one thing—communication is everything. The first time I tried it, I didn’t do enough talking beforehand, and it created a lot of tension. The most important thing is making sure that both of you are equally comfortable and interested in it, not just one person pushing it onto the other. I like how you emphasized making sure your girlfriend is on board and that it’s something you both want.
When we had ours, we set very clear boundaries and expectations, but I agree with you that things need to stay fluid. The dynamics change once you're actually in the situation, so it's important to be flexible. However, the third person needs to be fully respectful and not overstep any boundaries. That was something that was really important for us, and we had a lot of open conversations about the third person’s role before anything happened.
One of the things I didn’t expect was how much I’d have to check my own emotions. There’s definitely an element of jealousy that can come up, even if you’re open to the idea. It’s easy to think that you’ll be fine, but once the situation becomes real, it can be harder to handle. That’s why it’s important to really know why you’re doing it and how it might affect your relationship. If it’s something that your girlfriend really wants, make sure she’s not doing it just for your sake because that could lead to some issues later on.
In the end, the experience was great, but it definitely made me more aware of how important it is to stay emotionally aware throughout the process. As long as both partners are feeling respected, heard, and valued, it can be a fun and exciting experience. But it’s crucial to keep checking in with each other, especially afterward, to make sure everyone is still feeling good about it.
When we had ours, we set very clear boundaries and expectations, but I agree with you that things need to stay fluid. The dynamics change once you're actually in the situation, so it's important to be flexible. However, the third person needs to be fully respectful and not overstep any boundaries. That was something that was really important for us, and we had a lot of open conversations about the third person’s role before anything happened.
One of the things I didn’t expect was how much I’d have to check my own emotions. There’s definitely an element of jealousy that can come up, even if you’re open to the idea. It’s easy to think that you’ll be fine, but once the situation becomes real, it can be harder to handle. That’s why it’s important to really know why you’re doing it and how it might affect your relationship. If it’s something that your girlfriend really wants, make sure she’s not doing it just for your sake because that could lead to some issues later on.
In the end, the experience was great, but it definitely made me more aware of how important it is to stay emotionally aware throughout the process. As long as both partners are feeling respected, heard, and valued, it can be a fun and exciting experience. But it’s crucial to keep checking in with each other, especially afterward, to make sure everyone is still feeling good about it.