12-22-2024, 02:34 AM
I’ve been in a similar situation. There’s nothing wrong with craving intimacy, especially when you’re single. It’s human nature to want that connection, and it’s understandable that your mind would wander to someone who’s already familiar. But just because it’s familiar doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the right choice.
The fact that you’re questioning whether to call him shows you’re already aware of the potential pitfalls. On the surface, it might seem like an easy solution—great sex without the awkwardness of starting fresh with someone new. But let’s not forget why you ended things in the first place. If he was a liar back then, there’s a good chance that behavior hasn’t changed. Do you really want to open that door again, even if it’s just for one night?
Another thing to think about is how this might affect your self-esteem. If you’re truly over him and don’t have feelings for him anymore, that’s a huge accomplishment. Going back to him, even for something as simple as sex, might make you question whether you’ve really moved on. It’s worth considering how you’ll feel after the fact—will you be satisfied, or will it leave you with regrets?
Maybe this is an opportunity to focus on yourself and what you really want out of intimacy. Whether that means exploring new connections or taking time to reflect on your desires, the choice is yours. Just remember, you don’t have to settle for what’s easy or familiar—you deserve something that feels right and empowering.
The fact that you’re questioning whether to call him shows you’re already aware of the potential pitfalls. On the surface, it might seem like an easy solution—great sex without the awkwardness of starting fresh with someone new. But let’s not forget why you ended things in the first place. If he was a liar back then, there’s a good chance that behavior hasn’t changed. Do you really want to open that door again, even if it’s just for one night?
Another thing to think about is how this might affect your self-esteem. If you’re truly over him and don’t have feelings for him anymore, that’s a huge accomplishment. Going back to him, even for something as simple as sex, might make you question whether you’ve really moved on. It’s worth considering how you’ll feel after the fact—will you be satisfied, or will it leave you with regrets?
Maybe this is an opportunity to focus on yourself and what you really want out of intimacy. Whether that means exploring new connections or taking time to reflect on your desires, the choice is yours. Just remember, you don’t have to settle for what’s easy or familiar—you deserve something that feels right and empowering.