12-22-2024, 02:33 AM
It sounds like you’re in a really reflective place, and that’s a good thing. A lot of people would jump straight into a decision like this without thinking about the possible consequences. The fact that you’re weighing your options shows you’re trying to make the best choice for yourself. And honestly, that’s what matters most—putting yourself and your well-being first.
I get why you’d want to call him. Sex with someone you already know can feel safer and less intimidating than hooking up with a stranger. There’s already a level of trust and familiarity, even if the relationship didn’t work out. But the fact that he was a liar makes me wonder if that trust is still valid. Can you really count on him to keep things simple and drama-free?
Another thing to consider is how this might affect you emotionally. Even if you’re certain there are no lingering feelings, sometimes reconnecting with an ex can bring up unexpected emotions. It might be worth asking yourself if you’re prepared for that possibility—or if you’d rather avoid it altogether by looking for intimacy elsewhere.
Ultimately, I think it comes down to what you’re really looking for. If it’s just about the physical release, there might be other ways to satisfy that need without inviting potential complications. But if it’s about connection and comfort, maybe it’s time to think about finding someone new who can give you that without the baggage.
I get why you’d want to call him. Sex with someone you already know can feel safer and less intimidating than hooking up with a stranger. There’s already a level of trust and familiarity, even if the relationship didn’t work out. But the fact that he was a liar makes me wonder if that trust is still valid. Can you really count on him to keep things simple and drama-free?
Another thing to consider is how this might affect you emotionally. Even if you’re certain there are no lingering feelings, sometimes reconnecting with an ex can bring up unexpected emotions. It might be worth asking yourself if you’re prepared for that possibility—or if you’d rather avoid it altogether by looking for intimacy elsewhere.
Ultimately, I think it comes down to what you’re really looking for. If it’s just about the physical release, there might be other ways to satisfy that need without inviting potential complications. But if it’s about connection and comfort, maybe it’s time to think about finding someone new who can give you that without the baggage.